So many people have passed in the last couple of weeks, both on the world spectrum, and personally. It’s a real reminder that each day is not promised. “Tomorrow.” How many times have we said we would do things tomorrow, or the day after, or the day after that? I have a very dear uncle that has loved me unconditionally and has been a father figure to me. I always call him for Father’s Day, and honor his presence in my life. This year, I thought of him but was busy on a photography job, and didn’t call him, thinking I’d call him later in the week. Every day I thought of him, but was busy and didn’t call. He passed away suddenly a few days later. I found myself with the great reminder, don’t put off until tomorrow what you can do today. I have always thought of this in terms of ‘tasks’, but this now has a new meaning for me, in terms of loved ones. 

One thing that’s really important, especially when someone passes, is having images to remember them by. I encourage you to do what you can to capture your loved ones more often. Whether it’s your children and spouse, or grandparents, siblings, an aunt or uncle, neice, nephew, a dear friend, or a special teacher.  Hire a photographer, dust off your video camera, or pull out that point and shoot and get snuggly, and while you’re thinking of it, don’t put it off! You will be left with some beautiful memories and images to cherish.  Do what you can now, and make sure you give your attention and love to those special people in your life who you might not see everyday.

I found this video and wanted to share it in remembrance of Michael Jackson, and in remembrance of all those we’ve loved and lost.